5 Steps to Turn Your Goals into Habits

 
 

Having trouble making new goals stick? You’re in good company! 

Many New Year goals involve behavior change - which can be incredibly challenging. We might not know where to start, or maybe we’ll change the behavior for a week and then go back to our old habits. 

Habit Stacking is a technique where you form new habits by pairing a new desired behavioral change with an already existing behavior you routinely do (making coffee or showering) — or something that routinely happens in your day (your alarm going off or the kids coming home from school). 

Habit Stacking involves these five steps:

  1. OBSERVE: What’s going on around you, and how do you spend your time? Take one day to add notes to your digital calendar or jot down in a journal about how you spend each hour.

  2. MAKE A LIST: Within each hour, take note of your current routine habits that you do at about the same time each day, such as “make my bed,” “blow dry my hair,” “brew a pot of coffee,” or “take a lunch break.”

  3. IDENTIFY YOUR GOAL:  Whether your goal is to meditate, exercise, or read more - make it specific. I.e. “I will meditate for 5 minutes each morning,” or “I will walk for 15 minutes every day.”

  4. STACK YOUR HABIT: Go back to the list you created during step two, then consider with which current habit your new goal might align best. I.e. “After I pour my cup of coffee, I will meditate for one minute”

  5. TRY IT OUT: Start integrating the stacked habit into your routine for one week; taking a moment to note at the end of each day: How do you feel with the new habit? Did you stick with the new habit? Does anything need to change?

Natasha Lubansky, MA

With professional experience in community mental health centers and outpatient mental health clinics, Natasha has assisted individuals with various DSM-V diagnoses, including anxiety, depressive, bipolar, and personality disorders. Her experience includes assisting adult clients in identifying, setting, and working towards life planning and educational/employment goals.

In her work, Natasha uses a holistic, strengths-based approach, specifically using clients’ strengths to address challenges. She aims to assist others in discovering their aspirations, removing barriers to success, and taking small steps towards goals to create a more fulfilling life.

Working with individuals to develop competency in organization, time management, social skills, and managing stress, Natasha also has experience with children and teenagers with special needs, including Autism Spectrum Disorder. She utilizes individualized tools to improve thoughts, behaviors, and relationships in school and at home.

Natasha has a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology and a Master’s degree in Social Work with a concentration in Clinical Mental Health.

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